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Ah, Valentine’s Day: The most divisive holiday of them all. Beyond the whole, “It was made up by Hallmark” debate, there’s the matter of actually securing a Valentine. If you’ve got one, it’s all hearts, kisses and love (swoon), and if you don’t, it’s more akin to Ramen, FOMO and cheap rosé. (Or at least it was for me when I was a single gal in my early 20’s!) Attached or not, however, you can (and absolutely should!) send yourself love on February 14—and this Valentine’s Day gift guide is designed to help you do just that.
After all, if Miley can buy herself flowers, you can most certainly spring for a new tennis bracelet ($70) or a delicious new signature fragrance ($150) before the night is through.
Below, 21 things that will have you falling head over heels in love with yourself this Valentine’s Day.
Valentine’s Day Gift Guide Picks
1. Stil A5 Binder and A5 Weekly Planner
Honestly? 2026 has gotten off to a slow start. I feel like I’m in hibernation and my brain is moving in slow motion! I have so many things to do, but by 5 o’clock each day, I’m too tired to execute on … well, anything. I ordered this sexy little snakeskin binder and the acc in hopes of kickstarting my motivation and finally getting ish done.
2. Bearpaw Silkie Blush Slippers
These are so big and poufy, they’re kind of ridiculous, but in the very best way possible: Your feet will practically disappear in their giant puffs of warmth and comfort. You can wear them out to get your Amazon packages thanks to the thick sole, and the blush pink color is right on trend for Valentine’s Day. My only complaint? They’re loud on hardwood floors, minimizing a bit of their would-be zen.
3. Twelve South Valet Charger
Every work baddie needs one of these on her desk. A workstation charger and desk organizer in one, it will keep your cell phone (and iPad, if need be) juiced up no matter how many Tiktoks you doomscroll at lunch. What’s more, it will simultaneously clear up some of that clutter on your desk in a rather aesthetic fashion. It’s bigger than it looks, however, so if you’ve got a tight workspace, it may be better suited for your entryway counter.
4. Kayali Yum Boujee Marshmallow Perfume
I didn’t think much could top Phlur’s Vanilla Skin or Ellis Brooklyn’s Vanilla Salt (my signature scent), but Kayali’s Yum is really is that good. With notes of strawberry, pink marshmallow and whipped vanilla, it’s light and sugary, but stops short of being nauseatingly sweet. It also lasts for a good long while—I can still smell it on my shirt at the end of a long day.
5. Electric Picks Trust Fund Bracelet
If you’ve seen one tennis bracelet, you’ve seen ’em all—or so I thought. This Electric Picks design plays with sizing in a way that makes it seem fresh. It’s not made with real diamonds, but the brand does offer a lifetime guarantee on its 14K gold, sterling silver plating and cubic zirconia stones, which is a hell of a lot more than you’ll get from any other fashion jewelry brand—particularly at this price point.
6. Clare V. Lips Tumbler
Listen, I’m not even a tumbler girlie and I want this cup. What can I say? I’m drawn to a lips logo like a moth to a flame—I have one tattooed on my wrist, for Pete’s sake. Beyond being cute, it has your standard double-walled vacuum insulation to keep drinks hot or cold and a leak-proof lid—yada yada yada—but I mostly like it for the ‘Gram.
7. Underoutfit Nogap Mesh Bra
Finding a bra for an A cup is like finding a needle in a haystack at most department stores, and honestly, even Victoria’s Secret at times. And that’s if you’re looking for a granny style brassiere. If you’re looking to add any lace, mesh or even color into the mix? Ha! Dream on, sister. This Underoutfit bra is made especially for AA to B cups, and sans for La Vie en Rose, whose strapless bras I wear exclusively, it’s one of the only small boob-brands I’ve tried that doesn’t emphasize your flatness—it simply works with what little you do have. The kicker? They have mesh and lace options are actually attractive—a girl could weep!
8. Nordstrom Open Edit Cozy Rib Lounge Set
It’s rare that I find something I love enough to buy in multiple colors, and yet, I bought this three-piece cozy rib set from Open Edit in not one, not two, but three different shades—it’s *that* good. Not only are the bralette and shorts extremely flattering, they make for some of the most comfortable loungewear I own. The little cardi is also just the right bit of oversized to shrug into when the Florida AC gets to be too much. While the short set is largely sold out, the full-length version is still available in a purple magenta that’s perfect for Valentine’s Day—and on sale.
9. Lola Blankets Desert Dune Blanket
Remember how everyone was obsessed with the Barefoot Dreams blanket a few years back? (Literally, everyone, from Chrissy Teigen to Khloé Kardashian.) Yeah, well, I have it, and after trying the Lola, it was quickly relegated to the back of my closet. (Sorry, Barefoot.) Barefoot is soft and squishy, but the Lola is about as close as you can get to snuggling under a thick, cushy coat of fur (which is probably also why my senior cat prefers it to any other blanket in our house). As someone who hates heavy blankets, I also very much appreciate that it’s oversized without weighing me down at night. If I could afford it, I’d buy one for every room of my house.
10. Vachon Coffee Dust
If a caramel macchiato is your jam at Starbucks, you can (probably) scroll right on by this one—a sugar rush, this is not. But if you, like me, appreciate a minimalist cup of joe with a splash of cream and a hint of flavor, this little gift set of “coffee dust”—a.k.a. six sugar-free spice blends made to flavor your java—will quickly become a new obsession. The company sent me some to try, and it’s like topping off your Americano with a flourish of cinnamon and nutmeg, only better. Cocoa Calm, which infuses lavender and sea salt, is a unique treat, while Hot Mama (cocoa, cayenne, cinnamon and sea salt), is a totally unexpected, but exciting a.m. addition.
11. Lulu Guinness Small Lips Clutch
Bestill my novelty bag loving heart! This hardshell clutch doesn’t hold a whole lot—it opens up at the top with just enough room for your cards, lipstick and keys (sorry, iPhone)—but it’s not really the kind of purse you’re grabbing for storage. This is a statement piece, see, and a grade A stunner at that!
12. Laifen SE Hair Dryer
The first time I turned on this blow dryer, I thought, ‘Wow. I’ve been living in the hair dark ages.” Everything about this sleek little machine, from the ultra-light weight to the high-powered wind speed, is impressive. That’s particularly true when you consider that it’s just over $100 compared to the Dyson at $430. It definitely takes some getting used to: The air isn’t nearly as hot as you may be used to feeling from other dryers. But that’s also by design—less heat, less damage. I quickly realized that despite the foreign feeling of the more tepid temp, it wasn’t impacting my dry time in the slightest. It won’t dry you hair in less than five minutes, as the company claims, but at about seven to eight minutes for a full dry, it’s not bad at all.
13. Marrow Fine Everyday Teardrop Pearl Bracelet
I never really fancied myself a pearl fan, but after being sent this bracelet by the brand, I find myself reaching for it more and more. It actually looks really nice with gold or silver and makes for a sweet little stack addition that I’ve been really digging lately. It also comes at a decent price point considering it’s made with natural freshwater teardrop pearls. In fact, it’s one of the most affordable pieces the brand, which is worn by celebs like Megan Fox and influencer Sammi Jefcoate (muses, both!), makes.
14. It’s All Magic by Aliza Kelly
I was introduced to Aliza Kelly after interviewing her for a PEOPLE article, but any horoscope girlies like myself that aren’t already following her on social should do so immediately. In addition to being absolutely hilarious, she has a way of breaking down astrology, a practice very much rooted in mathematical calculations, in layman’s terms, and regardless of your beliefs on the topic, it’s always a fun listen. Her latest book, It’s All Magic, is much the same: Full of short little horoscope-like musings and reflections, you could flip through it from start to finish, like a normal person, but it’s far more fun to open it to a random page on any given day and see if it resonates.
15. Wayf Alaba Bow Dress
Not only is this sweet little frock more than half off right now (get it while you can!), it’s a dead-ringer for a (far!) pricier Reformation design that’s going for $248. The material has a silky satin feel, but still offers structure, it doesn’t wrinkle or show panty lines and it’s also machine washable. Win, win, win!
16. Albisa Candles
Since the age of 18, when I had a brief stint as a Bath & Body sales woman (I see you, Orland Square Mall), I’ve been clinging to the brand’s candles. And not because I’m particularly obsessed with them, but because, well, I’ve yet to find anything better. I’ve tried the more grown-up brands, but between their terrible throw and gag-worthy scents (why do they all smell like the world’s strongest soap?), they’ve done little but give my boyfriend an instant headache and me instant disappointment. Nest left me less than enthused. Diptyque flat out disgusted me. (I said what I said.) But Albisa? Albisa is the answer to all my candle prayers. After being sent both the brand’s signature Flan and Cultura y Tradiciones scents (both $32), I’ve officially found my new brand. The throw is strong enough to fill up a room, but not so strong you choke on the scent (which, by the way, is good enough to eat). BBW? We’re breaking up, hun.
17. The Million Roses
The Million Roses sent me these beauties in October 2023, and they’re still sitting on my desk, where, if they live up to their claims to last three years, they’ll remain until October 2026 (at which point I will immediately replace them). Yes, they’re expensive, but you know what’s also expensive? Regular roses. A bouquet, particularly one of this size, will easily go for $100+ and die in a week, whereas these rehydrated Ecuadorian roses will cost you $130 per year without shedding a single petal for the next 365+ days.
18. Donpapa Slippers
I’m going to say something controversial here: I’d buy these Donpapa slippers over UGGs any day of the week. Yes, they’re made of faux fur and faux suede instead of real Australian shearling. But honestly? They’re 20 times more comfortable, too. The main difference is in the sole. The ultra-thick rubbery bottoms of the UGGs make them too stiff to really be cozy. How do I know? Cause these Don Papas (which, by the by, I stole directly from Stylin by Aylin, a longtime Instagram crush), completely bend with your foot and feel like walking on a cloud. They’re still strong enough for a mailbox run, and they’re super soft inside, they’re just more pliable, and consequently, more cozy.
19. Phlur Vanilla Skin Eau de Parfum
I don’t often recommend perfume, as it’s such an objective buy, but this gorgeous scent seems to be universally beloved by all, including me. It’s got a warm, nostalgic scent that will take you back to your middle school days (shoutout to my Warm Vanilla Sugar people) but it stops short of being nauseatingly sweet. The brand sent me several scents to try, and the first night I wore this one, I went to bed sniffing my shirt and trying to figure out which one I had sprayed because it smelled positively divine. It’s the only one of my perfumes my boyfriend doesn’t complain about, it lasts all day and it doesn’t smell cheap. As such, it’s become my new daily scent.
20. In Good Taste
In full disclosure, I have not been able to try this Valentine’s Day set, since the brand has decided that my lowly blog is beneath it (*insert eye roll here*), so I can’t give it my full stamp of approval. But considering that it’s pretty hard to mess up rosé (you get 12 mini bottles, Advent style) and the price point for the product isn’t bad, it might be worth a shot. Moving right along …
21. Our Place Party Coupes
As you age, there are a few things that begin to spark interest that you never in your wildest dreams thought would. Birds, for instance. (IKYK.) Watches, another. Tableware and drinkware, a third. In this last department, I’ve been really living it up with these Our Place party coupes. Since I don’t cook, the Always Pan doesn’t really do it for me, but translucent blue wine glasses? Oh yes, friends. Oh, yes. I’ve had them for quite some time now courtesy of Our Place and they’re still all intact, (Read: They’re *quite* sturdy.) They wash up just fine in the dishwasher and if you’ve got tall cupboards, they also happen to stack.
What are you gifting youself for Valentine’s Day? Let me know in the comments below!
Xo, Nicole
